But some 9 years later we are still married. This is how we find peace. The following two tabs change content below. Coming out later in life has been the norm because no permission to know sooner. There is no need to feel guilt or blame because you have come to terms with the fact that you are a bisexual female. Brutality Submitted by Chrysanthemum on May 6, - 5:
Can bisexuals have a wife and a husband at the same time?
I told him that the main emotion I have is excitement that he was able to open up and share this with me. At some stage the husband will want to start to meet with men who are of like mind. What right has he to selfishly grab pleasure like that and cause her so much grief? I wanted to move forward into something different for our relationship. The whole situation becomes horrendously complicated and fraught. I am struggling with the anger, and resentment.
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To begin with, it is important for you both to understand bisexuality and learn what it means to be a bisexual woman. He has cheated on you with another man. The problem is these marriages are hard work. Part of the reason you don't hear too many men admitting to bisexuality is because they are hated more than gays, so they just suppress that part of them and live as straight men. Fourteen years into our marriage he surprised me one day, after he had had a few sexual encounters, that he was fantasizing and wanting to have experiences with men and that he thought he was bisexual.
Is he to abandon all he has worked for with his wife over all those years, just for what he now believes is his true nature? Marriages get broken up because of sexual preference, to create 'equality' based on sexual preference would have to be one of the most illogical, ridiculous, and socially destructive ideology of our time. Living in a world, which subscribes to the dichotomy of sexual orientation, it can be difficult for people who fall near the gray spectrum that is the center of the Kinsey scale. I went to see my therapist today. Would she have responded the same way had she learned her wife had cancer? Being a bisexual woman means that you have the capacity for an emotional, romantic and physical attraction to people of both sexes.